LOUSE BOURGEOIS, "THE SPIDER, THE MISTRESS, AND THE TANGERINE"

I am rewatching the film "The Spider, the Mistress, and the Tangerine," about sculptor Louise Bourgeois.  A quote from the movie bears continual revisiting and consideration: "It is very difficult to be a woman and to be likeable.  This desire to be likeable—it is really a pain in the neck.  How are you going to be likeable and be yourself?